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You lost your dad and nothing feels the same
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Your marriage ended and you're grieving the future you'd planned
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You're angry all the time and don't know why
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Everyone says "you seem fine" but you're falling apart inside
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You're working 70 hours a week to avoid going home
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You feel nothing at all—just numb
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Your relationships are suffering and you don't know how to fix them
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It's been months (or years) and you're still not "over it"
You Might Be Here Because...
All of this? Completely Normal. And you don't have to do it alone.
Grief for Men Looks Different
It's Not Just Sadness
Grief shows up as anger, numbness, irritability, exhaustion. You might not even recognize it as grief—you just know something's off.
No One Taught You This
You're supposed to be the strong one. So you push it down, stay busy, maybe drink more. Anything to not feel the weight of it.
It Doesn't Follow Rules
Society gives you about three days to grieve, then expects you back to normal. But grief doesn't work on anyone's timeline.
How We'll Work Together
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Free Consultation
We'll talk for 15-20 minutes to see if we're a good fit. No pressure, no commitment.
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Start Where You Are
No judgment about where you're at. We'll figure out what you need and create a plan together.
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Move Through It
Practical support for navigating loss without losing yourself. We'll work at your pace.
About
My name is Cody Baker
I'm Cody, a [licensed counselor/therapist] specializing in grief and loss for men and men's issues.
My daughter was stillborn. Her death sent me on a journey of dealing with my grief. I realized that I did not know how to and did not grieve loss in the past. I realized that I was trying to do it own my and that a lot of men are trying to navigate life and grief on their own.
I work with men who are tired of pretending they're fine. Men who want to show up better for their families and themselves but don't have a clear path forward.
No BS. No making you "get in touch with your feelings" for the sake of it. Just practical support for what actually matters.
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Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified in Grief and Loss counseling
What We'll Address
Precessing Loss
Death, divorce, career loss, identity loss—whatever you've lost, we'll work through it without falling apart.
The "First"
First holidays, birthdays, anniversaries without them. These hit hard. We'll prepare you.
Managing Anger & Irritability
That edge you can't shake? It's often grief in disguise. We'll address what's underneath.
Finding Yourself Again
Loss changes you. We'll figure out who you are now and who you want to be.
Navigating Relationships
When you're grieving, relationships suffer. We'll work on showing up better for the people who matter.
Moving Forward
Moving on doesn't mean forgetting. We'll help you build a life that honors what you've lost.
The strongest thing you can do is ask for help before things fall apart.
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Sessions available [in-person in / via telehealth]